So, I'm chatting with the wife of an acquaintance of Busy Dad's.
I've met her a couple of times before and she's very nice.
We were talking and she said, "Now, didn't you go to (high school)?"
I said, "Yes, I graduated in 1982."
(At this time, I was thinking, "Wow, she has a good memory, I don't even remember talking about this before.")
Wife: "I went to (other high school) and graduated in 1983."
Me: "Oh, OK."
Wife: "Don't you know (guy our age)?"
Me: "Yes, I do."
(Now, I know we didn't talk about that before.)
Wife: "Oh, your maiden name was (my maiden name)?"
Me: "Yes, yes it was."
(We for sure never talked about that, either)
Wife: "Didn't you date (guy our age) in high school?"
Me (wtf?): "Well, yeah. Kinda, I guess."
Wife: "He was my boyfriend, I'm (first name, maiden name)."
Me: "Oh, that's wild."
The conversation moved on, and I suddenly remembered who she was.
This guy liked me and we kind of went out when we were younger.
If there had been Facebook back then, I guess our relationship status would have been, "It's complicated" as we didn't exactly "date", but whatever.
I was aware that he had had a girlfriend and he led me to believe she was kind of psycho and that she couldn't accept the fact they had broken up.
In fact, she didn't like me a bit and used to follow me around places.
A lot.
This person is really nice and I enjoy talking to her and all, but damn if I know how she deduced all of this.
I couldn't wait to tell Busy Dad about this weirdness and did so when we got in the car.
He exclaimed, "Whoa, that is weird. I had no idea you dated (guy our age)."
He was totally unimpressed with my reunion with my stalker, but thought it weird that I dated this guy I didn't date.
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I "dated" lots of guys that I didn't date. I know exactly what you mean!
This gives me hope that my own personal stalker (You Know Who You Are!) grew up to be a perfectly nice adult.
it's really fun to meet old faces and reminis. Even if it wasn't funny at the time at least now we can have a good laugh at it.
I "dated" two guys via the phone that I never even met...ever.
How bizarre it would be to run into someone now who remembered that. Especially bizarre if that someone ALSO dated said boys of indistinction.
That is completely bizarre. Did you want to punch her? Run away screaming? Did she act like she remembered that she was a stalker? There is more of a story here, and I'm waiting! Mostly because there was a guy that stalked me when HD and I first got together and if/when we ever move back to my hometown I'm sure that HD will run into/meet him. I'm wondering what to expect!
Gah! Leave it to a man to get stuck on something that totally wasn't even the point!
Hmmm.. Is thumping a husband's forehead considered domestic violence?
Now THAT'S dedication! It takes a lot of persistence to stalk someone for 25 years.
Funny how time changes our perspectives. Y'all probably coulda been good friends had it not been for Whats-His-Name. Heh.
I've been accused of stalking of late. I didn't know looking at a person's public My Space page was considered stalking. Who knew?
Oh my - there are some people that just need to be left in the past, you know? This would qualify as one of them in my book, lol.
Glad she's "evened out" a bit (or so it seems....cue freak-girl music here).
Thanks..this was a nice break in the day to read today - and I needed a break!
that's what husbands are for.
creepy woman.
Wow, did you get the feeling that she's been waiting a LONG ass time to talk to you about this? i'm hearing creepy music and seeing flashbacks of boiled bunnies. But me? I'm paranoid.
Laughing mainly because my husband is never impressed by the "right" stuff either. And also because three guys that I "dated" in college are now pastors. What does that say about me?!
How funny! It is weird to see people we haven't seen for awhile, and your experience seems even weirder than that.
omg! hahaha!
I swear, some people don't forget ANYTHING from high school!
This is one of those things that makes things like Facebook or Classmates.com so freakin' scary.
As for husbands, ancient boyfriend history trumps every other detail of the story every time. It is just the way we are.
What a spooky conversation. I wonder how she knew all that stuff.
Cas
that is a little creepy she would remember all of that. that is some memory she's got, but i guess once a stalker, always a stalker? who knows, haha.
This is a perfect illustration of why I do not live anywhere near where I grew up.
I'm so glad that the only stalker I had was on the other side of an international border.
How did she deduce all this? She's never forgotten your face. She's never forgiven you for what she thinks you did to her relationship. When you re-entered your life, the gears started turning.
Keep an eye on her. From a distance. She thinks you stole her bf, maybe she'll try to steal your Busy Dad. Or screw with you some other way. Seriously. Once a stalker, always a stalker.
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